Stop
Second-Guessing
The step-by-step method to get out of post-decision panic and
move forward with confidence.
Without needing proof you “chose right.”
You deserve to feel settled after you decide.
To trust you’ll be okay and stop mentally reopening a choice.
If you’ve already made the decision
(sent the email…booked the trip…agreed to the favor…bought the thing…)
and now your brain won’t stop rechecking, this is for you.
This method will help you:
Know an easy way to check for real red flags: So you don’t have to feel irresponsible or panicked closing a decision and moving on.
Stop reopening the choice every time a question or doubt comes up: So you can get your brain back and keep going without the mental replays.
Feel calm even without total certainty: So you don’t need an evidence box full of proof you “chose right” in order to relax.
Stand by your choice without feeling locked in: So you can set yourself up for success and still pivot if you ever need to.
Get instant access for just $37.
From clients:
I really am trusting my choices. I’m not spending so much time worrying and deliberating.”
— D. B.
I had always second guessed myself, always asked everybody else, and thought more of other people's opinions than my own. It’s so freeing to be able to trust a choice and move on.”
— N. B.
THE HARDER YOU CHASE CERTAINTY,
THE MORE YOU TRAIN DOUBT.
You made the decision.
But instead of feeling relieved, your brain opened a brand-new tab called: “WAIT, DID I JUST RUIN EVERYTHING?”
You need to hear the truth:
You’ve been taught the exact thing that makes post-decision panic worse.
Because when you start doubting yourself after a decision, here’s the advice you get:
1) “Think it through more.”
Go back through it one more time. Explore a few more options. Keep looking until you feel sure.
But the harder you try to feel certain, the more you train your brain to second-guess.
And there’s no easy way out of that cycle:
Decide → Feel unsure → Assume ‘not done’ → Think harder → Repeat
The more you think, the less confident you feel.
Because you’re constantly reinforcing the habit that “uncertainty = danger.”
2) Get more reassurance
Talk to a friend. Ask your partner. Poll the group chat. Get someone to tell you you’re not crazy.
This might calm you down for five minutes. But it also creates a bigger problem:
You’re outsourcing your peace of mind.
Reassurance can feel like temporary relief, but it usually just sends you right back to chasing certainty again tomorrow.
These aren’t your only options.
❌ You shouldn’t have to “prove you chose right” in order to feel okay.
❌ You shouldn’t have to panic until you find enough evidence to relax.
❌ And you shouldn’t have to treat every decision like it’s a trap you’re stuck in forever if it doesn’t turn out perfectly.
What should be happening instead is closure — not proof.
Because second-guessing isn’t proof you chose wrong.
It’s usually just your brain reacting to uncertainty like a threat, because the loop never got closed.
But you can feel confident you’ll be okay, stand by your choice, and move on.
I had a million different things I thought I needed to prove out, I think, before I made a decision.
I needed a way to feel good about the decisions that I made.
This was so freeing.”
— KJP
YOU DON’T NEED PROOF.
YOU NEED CLOSURE.
I’m on a mission to help smart, capable people stop paying the post-decision tax.
Not by forcing yourself to “get over it.”
Not by pretending you don’t care.
Not by doing more thinking until you feel certain.
Because certainty isn’t what ends second-guessing. Closure is.
So you need this one simple skill: Closing the loop after you decide.
That’s why I created Stop Second-Guessing Your Choice — a short, focused mini-workshop that helps you get out of post-decision panic and move forward with confidence.
MAKE THE CHOICE AND MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE
JUST $37 — HERE’S WHAT YOU GET:
A bingeable mini-course you can finish in one sitting or watch in tiny chunks
Short lessons (2–5 minutes each) so you can get relief fast when you’re spiraling
A repeatable step-by-step process you’ll use any time doubt pops up
4 walk-through examples so you’re never left wondering “okay but what do I do?”
Instant access — watch anytime
If you want to feel okay about your decision (without spending the next month finding “proof” or feeling like you’re committing yourself to a life sentence), this is for you.
Stop Second-Guessing Your Choice
Get out of post-decision panic and move forward with confidence.
Designed to help in real life
If you’ve made a choice and now you’re spiraling, this will teach you how to:
Calm the “what if I messed up?” response without needing proof you chose perfectly
Tell the difference between a real red flag vs. normal discomfort after a decision
Stop treating uncertainty like an emergency
Stand by the decision you made (without white-knuckling it)
Stay flexible without using “I can always change my mind” as a backdoor into endless doubt
You’ll stop chasing certainty,
and finally teach your brain how to “stand down” after a decision.
FAQ:
“But what if I actually chose wrong?”
I get it. When we’re second-guessing, the real fear is that we really did make a bad choice.
This workshop isn’t about pretending every decision is perfect.
It’s about:
Stopping the panic loop — which you nee to do regardless of how a decision’s going to turn out
And learning how to update decisions cleanly if new info truly matters (because you should never have to feel “stuck” in a choice if it doesn’t turn out how you want!)
