Your decision-making style is...

The People-Pleaser

But wait! This doesn’t have to be a bad thing. You can get unstuck and make your style work for you.

You have a decision superpower!

You love making other people happy and feeling supported. YES.

But prioritizing others’ feelings and opinions takes away from honoring your own.

People-pleasing is your default Decision Style, and it makes daily choices harder than they need to be.

Best news? You are 1000% capable of unleashing your Inner Decisive Self and making every choice easier!

Luckily (#notluck…you got yourself here on purpose), changing this habit is one of my specialties.

Let’s do this.

Make the most of your style

When you’re not people-pleasing, you’re making thoughtful, compassionate choices.

You think about people’s food allergies when you make dinner reservations — you send flowers when a friend needs a pick-me-up — you go the extra mile to make people comfortable.

You’re basically a superhero.

And you can stay that way!

When you’re at your best, your Decision Style is really Consciously Considerate.

As long as you use it as a strength and not an obstacle, this can be the reason you feel great about your choices — and the results they create.

To make the most of it, notice when it feels good to be as considerate as you are.

As you notice the thoughtful decisions that are intentional, you’ll start noticing the choices that are happening by default (and more people-pleasey).

You’ll take charge of using your superpower — without neglecting yourself in the process!

The key to making the most of your style is to take charge of it.

Your Solution

CONSIDER YOUR OWN OPINION FIRST

When it comes to ditching that icky-feeling self-neglectful part of your Decision Style, you have to prioritize yourself first.

The truth is, not every decision requires other people’s input or approval.

When you have a decision to make, consider what you think, want & wonder.

And answer this before you check in with anyone else, or think about who might be disappointed, inconvenienced or upset by your decision.

Even if you end up asking around for people’s opinions or accommodating their preferences, you’ll do so with confidence when it’s from an empowered place.

You get to that empowered place by knowing you’ve considered your own thoughts and feelings first.

The more comfortable you get with considering your own authentic desires, the more you can make confident decisions that make you happy — and other people, when you consciously choose to!